child with seperation anxiety and anger?

I have a three year old daughter. her father and i seperated over a year and a half ago. it was very very hard for her. since i have tried to establish a routine and structure for her in my home. she is with me almost all the time. her father does have her two days out of the week for about two hours and one day every other week. the reason being for the short amount of time is that when she comes home she is just an emothional mess. i can not control her. she hits and screams and throws things. she is not like this until she comes home from spending time with her dad. it was worse until i shortened his time. What can i do to help her? she has this awful fear that i am going to leave her. I usually can not go out of the room for her fear of me leaving her. I have done everything i can do. I love tell her i lvoe her and i am very patient and understanding. i constantly reassure her i will not ever ever leave. I am at my wits end. what can i do?

When I was only 2, I’m 14 now, my parents were divorced. She will grow out of this for many young children do. The older you are the worse it is. I think you should both have custody in her because I some times wish, as a teenager I see my dad more. I cry ( I know, sounds sissy) privately because I only see my dad ones a month. There is nothing you can really do until you let time fix her. Little children are very immature and will do any thing to get attention. She should have her room in her dad’s house too. I’m talking both of you having custody.

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