How can i help him?

My son (age 19) has severe issues with Anxiety, blushing, nerves? ESP..when having to deal with the general public, it makes him leave his job/s and he just stays in his room all the time, to avoid the crippling emotion he feels when put in an uncomfortable situation.
His face goes beetroot as soon as he speaks. Very conscious of it..he is online most days searching forums for people with similar but i cant get him to go to the doctors, he wont come out with us as a family, he’s becoming a recluse.
He only sees his friends becasue they come to HIM, he wont go out.

OH MY god Sarah

I have a older brother with the same problem, hes very shy in front of people, and scared of making hes life, and talking to people, like dealing with them, even his face gets red sometimes when talking to someone, and my mum is worried so worried about him too, so am I , the only thing I can say is that, they lack confidence alot of confidence, they feel very very scared they need a man help, as my father died when we were still kids, I suggust you push him , really really push , TELL HIM , that he can do anything nothing is hard, he needs a push and a right guide oh I really hope he comes out of this situation, the only time it will is when he feels confident , and easy around people,

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