Anxiety Neurosis Causes
How do I cope with not knowing the cause of the pain?
I’ve had this twitching pain (and other unpleasant symptoms characteristic of UTI/renal colic) on the right lower side of the abdomen for some time. I’ve been through 3 doctors, did a urinalysis, an ultrasound and nothing unusual came up.
Yet I’m sure the pain is real. However, I’m getting really tired and worn out by this. The anxiety of not knowing what the hell it is is getting to me. Nothing else occupies my thought. I can’t study and I spend all day reading up on my symptoms and become more and more depressed at my ever-worsening prognosis.
This neurosis of mine is annoying me to the max. Please share your stories and advice. It’ll be much appreciated.
And also, I get spastic at every single little change in my symptoms.
As for questions of hypochondriasis–I’ve discussed this with the doctor and he doesn’t seem to think I have that…
Jimmy – I’m so sorry to hear that you’re in pain, and that you’re struggling with a diagnosis and treatment. I suffered for over 15 years with mysterious symptoms that spanned virtually every medical specialty; like you, my symptoms began controlling my life and isolating me from family and friends. Believe me when I say that I understand what you’re going through. Above all, remember that there’s hope.
A few of your statements strike a chord:
“I’m sure the pain is real” – No one knows your body better than you. To get the diagnosis and treatment you need, believing in yourself is imperative.
“I’m getting really tired and worn out” – Please do something to alleviate the stress in your life; being stressed out will only amplify your symptoms. (I’ve included a link in the source box to help.)
“I spend all day reading up on my symptoms” – What are you learning? How will you share this information with your doctor?
“I get spastic at every single little change in my symptoms” – Are you tracking your symptoms in a specific, concise, meaningful way? For example:
• Are your symptoms worse during certain times of the day, after eating certain foods or performing specific activities?
• Can you describe your pain (dull, sharp, throbbing), and pinpoint exactly where it occurs?
A “symptom journal” is a valuable resource for reading the clues your body is sending. (I’ve included a link in the source box for additional information to include.)
“Nothing unusual came up” – Jimmy, please don’t hesitate to find a new doctor – especially if you feel as though your doctor is unresponsive, not providing the answers you need, or undermining your pain.
I sincerely hope that you receive the treatment you deserve, and that you’re not suffering in silence. Please visit my website – there are loads of articles and resources that will help. (While there, be sure to sign up for my Health and Wellness Kit.)
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