How do I overcome the fear of rejection?
6 July 2010
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There is this girl that I talked to that I want to ask out. But the only problem is I am too afraid to do it. I have asked out girls in the past and always got rejected not politely but instead in the most mean and hurtful ways. I can’t get over it. I also fear that asking her out (and of coarse getting rejected) would make us feel to awkward around each other to be friends. How do I overcome that fear. Is there way I can ask someone out (and if I get rejected) it won’t feel awkward to be friends?
There is this girl that I talked to that I want to ask out. But the only problem is I am too afraid to do it. I have asked out girls in the past and always got rejected not politely but instead in the most mean and hurtful ways. I can’t get over it. I also fear that asking her out (and of coarse getting rejected) would make us feel to awkward around each other to be friends. How do I overcome that fear. Is there way I can ask someone out (and if I get rejected) it won’t feel awkward to be friends?
You have to ask her with confidence, if you are rejected than there is little you can do but smile and go “well lets still be friends”, good luck
ask her wat her type is and if ur in that category than u should totally do it!
You always go into it thinking they will say no. If that happens just blow it off, don’t get cocky and nasty..just be like..oh well..that’s life. That way you can still remain friends.
It’s all phycological. In order to change your fear of rejection, you need to change the way you think about it. Each girl is different. A different girl, could lead to a different answer. You need to be optimistic, its the only way you’ll get over it. You have to realize that even if she does reject you, you can just move on and try again. It sucks to be rejected, I know from experience, but if these girls wouldn’t give you the time of day for a date, you shouldn’t let them affect you this way. As for the awkward feeling, if you feel awkward, it will be awkward. Just go about as if it never happened. Sure, you both will know she said no, but you would’ve never known if you didn’t try. And personally, I’d rather just ask than never know what she would have said. The next girl you ask might have a different response than the other girls, or it might be the same. Don’t pass by on an opportunity to be with someone just because of the past. Each day is new and so is each experience. This is the way you’ll have to think if you want to get over your fear.
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