performance anxiety????

So i had sex for the second time in my life the other day with this girl i just met. I just played in a 9 inning baseball game we lost to end our season. that same day at around 3 in the morning we start to have sex. Except for i go limp right when i enter… or even i think when i put the condom on. – im scared because the same thing happened on my first time! – I also had a game before my first time and we didnt do it till 2 am then too. whats wierd is i stayed hard when she just decided to give me a ******** to finish the night. Help! why me im only 19! —this girl really turned me on but i had no feelings for her. — my first time i had tons of feelings for the girl – so whats up!? please help. any tips and tricks?? to get over this

You’ve probably read or heard somewhere that coaches counsel their athletes not to have sex or drink the night before a big game. Why…we all know that alcohol can impede performance and…if you give up all your good juice the night before the big game…where’s all the testosterone you’re gonna need to whip your opponent? Likely, what happened to you was just the opposite. You used up a good portion of it on the baseball field. You were also feeling a little less manly because you lost. The long and short of it is…it happens to all guys some time or other–even on days that you scored the winning touch-down and stayed away from the 12-pack. It’s no big deal. You’ll probably rock her world the next time.

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